Undies, Myths, and the Multitasking Woman: Welcome to "The Hurt Feminine"!

Hey there, gorgeous! Buckle up, because we're diving headfirst into a brand new series all about understanding ourselves, that complex and oh-so-wonderful mess we call the "feminine experience." We're calling it  The Hurt Feminine, and trust us, it's not what you think!

We're kicking things off with a story that's as old as time (or at least, as old as Ancient Greece): the myth of Cassandra. Remember her? Cursed by Apollo to utter true prophecies that no one would believe? Yeah, that Cassandra.

So, what's the link between a mythical seer and you, a modern-day Aussie woman in her forties, juggling career, kids (or the desire for them), aging parents, and the ever-present pressure to look flawless while doing it all? More than you might think!

Cassandra's plight resonates with the unique challenges many women face today. We're bombarded with often-contradictory messages. We're supposed to be independent, ambitious careeristas (https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesbusinesscouncil/2023/02/07/why-everyone-wins-with-more-women-in-leadership/), yet nurturing and dedicated partners. We're told to smash the glass ceiling, but the biological clock, well, that's still ticking  (https://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/ucla-scientist-uncovers-biological-248950). On top of that, we often find ourselves sandwiched between caring for our children and our own aging parents – a phenomenon sociologists call the "sandwich generation"  (https://mhanational.org/sites/default/files/FACT%20SHEET%20-%20Caregiving%20and%20the%20Sandwich%20Generation.pdf).

Sound familiar? Yeah, thought so. See, Cassandra wasn't just cursed with disbelief; she was cursed with a truth the powerful couldn't handle. And isn't that just like being a woman today? We see the realities, we juggle the needs, and sometimes, we just feel unheard. That's the "hurt" part of the Hurt Feminine – the weight of unspoken truths and unmet expectations.

But here's the thing: Cassandra's story doesn't end in tragedy. She may not have been believed, but she was strong, she was wise, and she survived. And that's where we come in.

This series is about embracing the complexities of being a woman. It's about acknowledging the "hurt" and using it as fuel to find our power, our voice, and our own unique shade of fabulous.

So, how do we do that? Well, that's what we'll be exploring in the coming weeks. But for now, let's start small. What's one thing you do in your day-to-day that helps you find peace with your multifaceted life? Maybe it's that cheeky pair of knickers that makes you feel like a warrior queen, that power walk in the morning sunshine, or that unapologetic dance party in your kitchen while making dinner.

Share your tips and stories in the comments below! Remember, beautiful friend, you are strong, you are capable, and you are worthy of living your truth. Now, let's go out there and unlock our true potential, one colourful action at a time!

*Photo by Andrea Piacquadio: https://www.pexels.com/photo/pensive-young-woman-choosing-outfit-while-dressing-in-light-vintage-bedroom-3768580/